When you hear “retirement plan,” what comes to mind?
For many of us, it’s numbers. How much do I need? When can I stop working? And the big question – Will I have enough?
But here’s the thing – what if your retirement vision started with something much more powerful than numbers?
What if, instead, it started with a picture?
Meet Diane
Diane is 58. She’s raised three kids, built a small business, and now she’s wondering what comes next.
Although she’s not ready to slow down completely, but she knows she doesn’t want to hustle forever either.
When she sat down to plan her retirement, she didn’t just ask, “How much will I need?” Instead, she asked, “What do I want my life to look like?”
And that’s exactly where the magic happens.
Retirement Is Not One Season—It’s Three
Think of retirement like a 30-year road trip. You won’t be doing the same thing in your 60s as you will in your 80s.
That’s why, instead of thinking about retirement as one long stretch of time, it helps to break it down into decades:
🚗 Decade One: The Active Years
You’re still full of energy. Maybe you want to travel, volunteer, explore hobbies, or even start a second act career.
Questions to ask:
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Do I want to live near family or move somewhere new?
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How will I fill my time with purpose and fun?
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Will I need extra cash for adventures?
Money Tip: Make sure you have some funds that are easily accessible for this phase. You’ll be spending more, and that’s natural, and okay…it’s part of the plan.
🏡 Decade Two: The Settle-Down Years
You’ve done the big travel. Now you’re ready for rhythms and routines. Life may slow down, but joy doesn’t disappear.
Questions to ask:
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Do I want to downsize my home?
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What hobbies or local groups do I want to join?
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How will I stay connected socially and mentally?
Money Tip: Inflation is real. Your spending might change, but prices won’t always stay the same. Plan for your dollars to stretch.
❤️ Decade Three: The Wisdom Years
In your 80s and beyond, comfort and care become a priority. This is where planning ahead gives you peace of mind.
Questions to ask:
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Will I need help with daily living?
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Where do I want to live if I can’t manage a home?
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Who will help me make decisions if I can’t?
Money Tip: Health care costs often rise in this phase. Look into long-term care planning, life insurance with living benefits, or creating a legacy plan.
Why This Approach Works
Planning your retirement lifestyle in decades instead of just dollars gives you:
✔️ Clarity
✔️ Flexibility
✔️ Permission to enjoy life while planning ahead
And it helps you avoid one of the biggest mistakes: only planning for the beginning.
Create Your Own Retirement Vision
Let’s try this exercise. Imagine…
You’re 65. You wake up with no alarm. What does your day look like?
Now imagine it again—but you’re 75. What’s different? What’s still important?
Fast forward, now you’re 85. Who’s nearby? What brings you joy?
Write it all down. This is your vision. Because it’s not just about money – it’s about meaning and purpose.
Real-Life Scenario: Meet Susan and Carla
Susan and Carla are both retired.
Susan only planned for her early retirement years. It was all the fun stuff – travel, golf, and family fun. She didn’t think about rising health costs. Now she’s stressed about running out of money.
Carla? She planned in decades. She knew her 80s would look different than her late 60s. So she set up a hybrid plan, it included some guaranteed income now, with funds reserved for later needs. Now she’s not just surviving—she’s thriving.
Your Turn
Your future self is counting on you to dream boldly now. Start with the picture. Then build the plan.
You don’t have to do it alone.
🔗 Next Steps
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💡 Consumer Financial Protection Bureau – Planning for Retirement – A simple, unbiased tool to estimate retirement income and explore options.